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Thursday, October 31, 2024

Less Than A Week To Go!

 

BERJAYA

Oh I can't wait until I vote this Tuesday on November 5th, four days before my birthday on November 9th.

I'm still traumatized over what happened November 9th, 2016. That was Election Day when I heard that The Criminal Trump "won" the presidential election. 

I'm trying to remember a time when I was as shocked to learn that there literally are that many ill informed (stupid) people in this country that they would vote for a failed reality TV star. A lifetime con man, crook, thief, sexual abuser of women and congenital liar. Totally unqualified to be the president of the greatest country this world has ever seen. Was it possible that that any of my fellow citizens were conned by the Master Con of all time? Oh yes, it actually happened. Oh I get it, they hate Hilary and the Democrats. I get that. I not particularly fond of Hillary either but I don't hate her. 

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I hate Trump. I didn't always feel that way about Trump, in fact I was quite the fan for many years. But when I discovered that his facade was all a fraud and they he is actually the personification of evil, I woke  up. I have to admit I almost slipped into the mire of Trump World. But enough of bashing Trump here, I'm doing that on my Facebook account, pissing off a lot of my deluded Tipton relatives. I have to admit I love triggering them. They know I'm right about Trump but they're too insecure to admit they're wrong about Trump. The latest brooha ha is that Biden said the supporters of Trump are garbage. Well, he did say it. Good old Joe, you can always count on him to put his foot in his mouth.


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Of course Joe was referring to the comedian at the Trump Nazi love fest in Madison Square Garden who referred to Puerto Rico as an "island of floating garbage." Nice move Trump campaign by hiring that ass swipe for your Hate Rally. That "comedian" probably just lost you Pennsylvania which has a large Puerto Rican population that votes. They needed a little energizing because the Latinos were starting to slip away from the Democrats.

So how are things around here at Casa Tipton-Kelly during this heated presidential campaign? Well, yesterday I had an heated confrontation with a neighbor. 

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He (no names) was riding around the neighborhood on his bike. I'll give you a little background, he's of Italian heritage from New Jersey. Yes, of course a Trumper. So he rides his bike into my driveway and greets me. I had just returned from the supermarket. I didn't have my hat on and the sun was in my eyes as I started to talk to him. I reach for my Harris/Walz hat in the passenger seat in my car. I usually wear my Rehoboth Beach hat around here at Casa Tipton-Kelly because my neighbor right next door is a Trump supporter. That neighbor and I don't discuss politics so I try not to antagonize him by wearing my Harris/Walz hat. He's a good neighbor and we respect each other's opinion even though I think he's totally wrong. I hope and pray he'll see the light some day but that's another story for another post. Anyway, back to this one neighbor who lives quite a distance away from me in this neighborhood. He sees my hat and starts tearing into me for supporting Kamala. WTF!!?? So I go right back at him. He tells me about the criminality and traitor Trump. He tells me to "Shut up!" I tell him "Don't pull that bully Trumps shit to me in my own driveway!" We had a few more words then he took off. Fuck him! Talk about nerve! In my own driveway and he's giving me grief because I was expressing my support for Kamala Harris by wearing a hat I got from her website. What the fuck is the matter with some of these Trump supporters? Who the fuck do they think they are? IN MY OWN DRIVEWAY!  Another deluded Trump supporter who only gets his "news" from Faux News. 

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One thing you have to give Trump credit for, he is the Great Divider. I will be so glad when this election is over and we can get back to the business of putting that bastard behind bars where he belongs for his lifetime of crime. I've already lost one brother to this stupidity. It's a shame that I lost this neighbor because other than his Trump Derangement Syndrome, he seemed like a nice guy. But I'm not putting up with his bullshit trying to bully me in my own driveway. 

And again how about this latest "garbage" controversy? Trump has been calling Americans garbage for his whole campaign but Joe Biden slips up and The Right goes crazy. Here's what I have to say about that so called controversy:

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Remember the whole "Brandon" thing? Talk about faux outrage from the Republicans. What hypocrites. Sean Hannity is outraged. Oh my goodness! 

I see where the conservative dominated corrupt Supreme Court yesterday okayed Virginia governor Glenn Youngkin's scheme to purge voters from the rolls this close to the election. That's our corrupt Supreme Court in action again. Doing everything in their power to put Trump back in power. Those six conservative members of the Supreme Court will go down in American history as the most corrupt ever. It's just a shame we have to live with their corruptness. Shame on them! 

BERJAYA









Monday, October 28, 2024

Suckers and Losers

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 The only suckers and losers are those who attended the Trump Nazi rally yesterday at Madison Square Garden in New York City. 

Their indulgent "own the libs" even yesterday guaranteed that Trump and Vance lose the election. Goodbye the Puerto Rican vote. 

As my late friend Wayne "The Cajun" Juneau used to say, "You can't fix stupid."


Sunday, October 27, 2024

Michigan Sets New Record in Early Voting

 

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Early voting lines Detroit yesterday

Michigan set a new record in early voting yesterday. Over 145,000 Michiganders stood in line yesterday to vote in the presidential election. 

This is tsunami folks. The previous record was about 13,500.  Look for the Orange Jesus to go down BIG as a LOSER. 

This is what is called a Blue Wave.

Oh I know all the polls says "It's a very close race" and the percentage points are "within the margin of error" but I believe those polls a skewered by the Trump/Elon Musk Machine of fake polls. The Trump campaign has employed all these false polls so when they lose the election, which they will, they will claim "But the polls said......" 

I am confident that Kamala will win but there is still the nagging doubt that somehow Trump and our Electoral College monstrosity could turn this election into a mess for Trump. No wonder my blood pressure has been up so much lately. I never did get over the results of the 2016 election when Hillary lost to Trump. I'm still in shock over that election but then Hillary was a poor campaigner and not a very likable person to many. She didn't bother me but she did annoy a lot of people who never did get over her "60 Minutes" interview when she claimed she wasn't "just baking cookies for her husband." 

Trump is now having his Madison Square Garden rally or shall I say "rambling non sensical speech" with his brain dead followers. No matter, no matter. He's going to lose and lose BIG this November 5th.

The tsunami is coming you MF.


BERJAYA



Saturday, October 26, 2024

Long Lines Early Voting

 

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I opted out for early voting yesterday. The lines were way too long. At least an hour and a half wait.

I will probably vote Election Day November 5th. My regular poling place is right here in my development, Covington Chase. I was in Lewes yesterday for my follow-up doctor's appointment for my pass out in the Walmart parking lot this past June when Pat and Glenn were visiting me. My blood pressure is still elevated (144 over 92) which is unusual for me. Last month when I had my blood pressure taken at the VA Outpatient Clinic it was similarly high. Both times we attributed it to the current political climate. I think once this election is over and the Criminal Trump is defeated once and for all, my blood pressure will come down. I hope so anyway. Last night I took my blood pressure medicine for the first time and the nurse practitioner was right, it did make me very fatigued. As if I wasn't already fatigued enough. 

Every night I go to bed with a secret wish that I don't wake up. I'm ready to go folks. I'm ready. But first I have to vote to get this Orange Jesus out of or lives once and for all.


VOTE!

Friday, October 25, 2024

Early Voting Begins In Delaware

 

BERJAYA


Early voting began today in Delaware. I was considering voting early but decided not to, fearing long lines. Well, I was right. The wait was an hour and half to two hours. I can't stand that long. Besides, there are only a few early voting locations. On election day my regular voting location is right here in my development. I think I'll wait until then to cast my vote from Kamala Harris and Tim Walz. I cannot wait to vote for Kamala and against that traitor to our country Donald Trump. 


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Trump has succeeded in terrorizing and intimidating many Republicans and even owners of newspapers like the Washington Post and Los Angeles Times but not me and millions of people like me who are not in the Faux News silo bubble and Cult of Trump. What a shame they can't see the pure evil that Trump is. What a shame. If Trump is elected he wants to punish his enemies. Kamala says if she is elected she wants to help ALL the people. Trump wants to be a dictator. They actually believe if they elect Trump groceries will be cheaper. Wait until he institutes his tariffs which is just another word for a national sales tax.  

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I would like to say I feel sorry for those Trump supporters but I don't. As my late friend Wayne Juneau used to say "You can't fix stupid." 




Thursday, October 24, 2024

My Life Philosophy Now

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 I've wasted too much of my life trying to please everybody. This is my new mantra. Better late than never. Especially now that I've lost so many of my family (my brother especially who is totally MAGA) and others who I once considered my friends. I cannot abide our ignorance and hate in supporting Donald Trump for president. I am done with you. 

In a few weeks I'll be eighty-three years old. In the pat eighty or so years I have discovered that people you let into your life will either respect you and your views or they will not. If they do not, then do not waste one more second of your precious time on them. Nothing I would or could ever say will convince them otherwise because they are lost in the cult. I will live the rest of my life with those who respect me. I don't have any more time to waste on these people who do not respect me. 

Saturday, October 19, 2024

Robin's Last Year


Every morning, when I get up, I open the curtains next to my bed and look out my window to the oval planter where my bird baths are located.

In early spring, robins arrive signaling the start of a new breeding season. For the next three months until the start of summer in June, there is a lot of activity at those bird baths. 

When their young are grown enough to leave their nexts, the robins, with their young take off for the South to spend the winter. They will return the following year in early spring. 

Then there are those robins who can't make the annual return trip to spend their winter in the South. These robins are too old to make the trip. They stay here in the North, where they were born. The robin in this video is one such robin. This will probably be his/her winter. We all die. Even robins. 

Which brings to my mind. Pat and I have planned our trip to Palm Springs this February. We haven't been to Palm Springs since 2019. We used to go every year in February for Modernism Week. Little did we know when we returned from our last trip in February of 2019 that COVID would basically close the country down. Then in 2021 Bill had his strokes and for the next three years I was his full-time caregiver. 

Now COVID is behind us and Bill has died. Pat and I are able to travel again. However, now there are some significant differences.

My income has been cut in half because I no longer work at the hotel nor do I have Bill's Social Security income to help with household expenses. I can still manage to keep Casa Tipton-Kelly afloat but gone are my free spending days when I could travel four times a year with Pat. Also, my physical limitations are greater now. My arthritis has progressed to the point where I have trouble walking. I used to be able to walk and walk. Walking was one of my big treasures. I always liked walking and could walk for miles without tiring. These days walking is painful and a chore. But I force myself to walk to keep my circulation going. Walking is absolutely the best exercise for older folk like me. 

This November I will be eighty-three years old. That is OLD. I don't have that many trips left in me at this age. A fact I have to face. 

So this year this old robin is going to make one more trip to Palm Springs but I think it will be my last trip. 

There comes a time one has to face facts. I have a beautiful home here in southern coastal Delaware. I won't freeze this winter like that robin probably will. 

I'll keep track of this robin. I'm pretty sure that robin is sending me a signal. The signal that my time to leave isn't too far away. And you know what folks? I'm not sad. I'm not afraid. In fact, I look forward to the next phase of my soul's existence. My eighty-three years of life on this earthly planet, my "school" has been quite interesting and fulfilling. I'm ready.


Sunday, October 13, 2024

Ontario My Visit To Pat Aug 25 – Sep 1, 2019


This is a video of my trip to visit Pat in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada. A warning, it is long (eighteen minutes plus) but interesting. At least I think it is interesting. The reason I say this because whenever I post one of these compilation videos I receive no comments. Boring Ron!  That's okay folks, I post this blog for my therapy and for history. I like to think that someone like me two hundred years from now will see this video I'm posting on this blog and say "Wow! Look at how weird they lived in the two thousands!" I realize folks that videos like this probably have about as much appeal as sitting down and watching your neighbor's photo albums of their kids or your elderly neighbor's slides of their summer vacation in Europe, which I actually did once when Bill and I lived in Philadelphia. Oh I'll never forget THAT experience. Our neighbors George and Flossie Kehrer, the nicest folks but oh man, SO BORING sitting through an hour of their visit to Germany, especially when George got stuck on one city "I think this is Cologne, or was it Koblenz Flossie?" After he batted that around for about five minutes Flossie said (thank goodness) "It doesn't matter." Oh well, it was a beautiful pictures of a cathedral in one of those German cities but I digress. 

This video is of my trip from Delaware (my ride to the Philadelphia International Airport) to the Buffalo New York airport where Pat picked me up and took me over the border to Canada to Hamilton, Ontario where he was living at that time in a condo at the Royal Connaught Hotel. You'll see me and Pat at a party his neighbors who lived in a penthouse above him, invited us to  their soiree. Also visits to various vegan restaurants, IKEA and his friends Paul and Deb who lived in nearby Port Dover. Pat and I never do anything dramatic but we always have a good time together because we ARE together. Never bored when I'm with Pat.  

Again, this video is over eighteen minutes long. You've been forewarned. 

Enjoy!

Saturday, October 12, 2024

Bill Kelly Memories - Forever In My Heart


Bill will forever be in my heart. 

Yet another Sad Saturday here at Casa Tipton-Kelly.

For the rest of my life, I will always miss that wonderful man who insisted on coming in to my life on that rainy July day in Philadelphia in 1964. 

I am so thankful Bill never gave up on me. 

These days I am comforted by my many memories of Bill and thankful that I had so many years with him. 

I lead a comfortable life now, living out what remaining days I have left on this earth. This earthly existence because I am confident that our souls to ascend to a heavenly plain after we exit our old, tired and worn bodies. 

Bill was so tired when he died last February 22, 2024 at 12:20 AM early Saturday morning. He wanted to go but he didn't want to leave me. But it was his time. 

I was so fortunate than many people in that I had such a long loving relationship with this wonderful man. I really don't have anything to complain about.

Bill did not die in pain like so many. Yes, he was in a great deal of discomfort because his body and brain was failing him. What ultimately killed him was his brain short circuiting, "cerebrovascular disease" so says his death certificate. 

I hated seeing him the last three days of his life at the hospice center where he received no food or water. I can't help but think me must have been suffering but I was assured by those at the hospice center that he wasn't aware of what was going on. He was unconscious the whole time I was with him. One time when I was holding his hand and whispering into his ear that I loved him, I felt his hand tighten on my hand ever so slightly. I would like to think somewhere deep in his well of unconsciousness that he heard me and was sending me a signal.

Since he died he has been in contact with me, mainly through telepathy and the blinking of that one burned out Christmas light over the curtain rod in our living room. For the last three weeks that light has been out but when I received news of the death of my former boss at the hotel, I wanted to tell Bill but of course could not. And wouldn't you know it, that evening, as I was doing the dishes, that light came on. That was Bill telling me that Ted (my former boss) was "up there" and they were "doing just fine." And I believe him. What a comfort that Bill still stays in touch with me. 

These days, as autumn descends upon us (my favorite time of the year), I am living a comfortable life. No impending medical treatments. Yesterday I had a wonderful handyman to a superb job on paining my window cornices. He was so kind to me.

Pat and I continue our long distance relationship. Yes, he's still having major problems with his druggie neighbors and is pursuing legal action against them along with the neighbor on the other side of their three house units all next to each other.

Each day we're one day closer to the presidential election. Kamala is going to blow The Traitor Trump out of the water come November 5th. Trump and his traitorous enablers will of course try to overturn the election but the will of the people will have spoken. I'm hoping for a completed Democratic takeover of the presidency, House and Senate. For a generation. Yes, that sounds about right. Next up.....the Supreme Court.

And that folks is the news from my little speck corner of the world this Saturday morning, October 12, 2024.

Have a great day everyone!


Sunday, October 06, 2024

Bill Bed Maneuvers Oct 31, 2023


This morning, while scrolling through my photo library I came across this instructional video I took of a hospice worker showing Bill how to get in bed.

Now remember, Bill hasn't used his bed in years. He slept in his recliner, fully clothed every night. But his hospice worker decided that he should use his bed. Bill didn't want to use his bed but we did want to cooperate with his health care worker. 

The reason I'm posting this video is that it reminds me of Bill's unique personality and how much I miss him. He could be irascible and ornery at times but he was my Bill. I loved him so much. I am so glad I took this video even though he never put these "bed" instructions to use even after she left.

This video was taken October 31, 2023. Bill died the following February 22, 2024 at the hospice center in Milford. He died in a bed. But he wasn't aware of where he was because when he left our home three days prior to his death, he was unconscious and never regained his conscientious. 

I treasure these videos I have of him. Oh how I loved that man and how he loved me. Something we had for almost sixty years of our life. We were so fortunate to have each other. I love Pat too but our love is much different than the love Bill and I had for each other. 

Saturday, October 05, 2024

Saturdays Still Hurt

 

BERJAYA


It's been nine months now since Bill died early Saturday morning February 22, 2024. 

The pain is still here. Now I realize it will never fully go away. 

My whole attitude on life has changed in ways I had not imagined.

I knew I would miss Bill terribly when he died but this is one hundred times worse. 

I still care about living (I didn't immediately after he died) but things I used to care about, what people thought about me, I just do not care for those things anymore. They are not important.

My main thing I'm looking forward to now is to see Kamala Harris elected president and the judiciary system finally hold Donald Trump accountable for his lifetime of crimes, especially against the people of the United States of America where he and his treasonous enablers tried to overthrow our last presidential election. 

I have given up and frankly I don't even care anymore why so many otherwise reasonable people cannot see Trump for the fraud and traitor to this country that he is. These people vote against their own interest, that I don't get. And I never will. Maybe it's because they're afraid if they elect the Democrats their "way of life" will change forever because the Democrats will unleash the "forces of hell" upon them and their communities by having illegal immigrants (from Haiti and the Congo) invade their neighborhoods, eat their pets, rape their women and slit their throats in their very kitchens. 

These ridiculous lies remind me of the whole gays in the military controversy. Remember that one? You couldn't let gays in the military because out military will collapse because a gay man might look at the bare ass of a straight man in the shower where they're serving together on the military bases. I remember the ridiculousness of Senators John McCain and Sam Nunn taking a new camera crew along to a Navy submarine dock in the New York harbor to show how close the quarters were for sleeping. I couldn't believe my eyes. These STUPID MEN just didn't have a clue. GAY MEN WERE ALREADY IN THE MILITARY! Remember how McCain and Nunn said our military would collapse if gays served openly in the military? WRONG! 

If an openly gay man harassed one of his straight fellow soldiers you address that problem the way you address any sexual harasser. Simple as that! The same way you would handle the problem with a straight soldier harassing a female counterpart. 

My fellow "Make American Great" friends, believe me when I tell you the country will not collapse in a hellscape of murder and mayhem if you election Kamala Harris and Tim Walz. Anyway, get used to it because Harris and Walz will be elected and the hellscape that is Donald Trump and his enablers will soon be another bad chapter in the history of the United States. 

Interesting how this post dissolved into another Trump rant. But that's the way things go now days in my world folks. I have given up on convincing any of my MAGA friends the folly of their ways. I'll probably never speak to my one remaining brother, he is so lost in the hate of the MAGA world. It just isn't worth trying to repair that relationship. He will go to his grave full of hate of me and so many of his fellow Americans. Such is the results of the Cult of Trump. 


Thursday, October 03, 2024

'You're a charlatan': Judge sentences defiant Tina Peters to 9 years | F...


Colorado Judge Matthew Barrett sentences former County Clerk Tina Peters to nine years in jail for election interference.

Finally, a judge who tells it like it is. The arrogance of privileged Trump supporters like Tina Peters who assumed she was above the law. For her election interference she gets nine years in jail. And I hope she serves every day of the nine years behind bars for her crime. Listen to Ms. Peters, she says she can't go to jail because she requires a "special mattress." Give me a fucking break. 

I hope I live long enough, in fact I pray every day that I live long enough to see Trump sentenced for jail for his lifetime of crime. That would truly be justice. Unfortunately, Trump's sycophants have to pay the price for Trump's crimes.

Thank you Judge Matthew Barrett.

Dance With Abandon

  This is a short video I took of Hunters, a gay dance bar in Palm Springs, California during my visit February 16, 2019. We were all dancin...

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