Yesterday, I got a postcard from Iceland. There's a story behind it, which I plan to tell next week.
The person who sent it to me wrote a short message on the card. It didn't strike me at first, but I realized that it was printed.
It's also the first time I've received a non business letter (handwritten) or a postcard in forever.
Does anyone write in cursive anymore? For that matter, does anyone reading this blog post have a pen pal?
With cursive writing, my son (who is 30-something) never learned how, and I wonder if my postcard writer is in his age group. This postcard project (more on that next week) wasn't to start pen pal relationships, but it made me think about pen pals.
Pen pals were so popular "way back when". I know the practice has gotten a bit of a resurgence during the pandemic. I suspect a lot of these are young people writing to nursing home residents, or something similar. But it was different "back then".
I remember my pen pal; in fact, I woke up about 5am today thinking of her. I am a bit superstitious about when I wake up thinking of someone I haven't thought of in many years. In more than one case, I look online for an obituary and I find it. But I digress.
Years ago, when I (born and raised in New York City) got the urge to "go back to the land", spouse and I bought about 34 acres of land in Arkansas. We lasted only a few years, but during that time, I subscribed to a magazine for like minded people. They had a section for finding a pen pal.
I wrote to three or four people, and got back a couple of answers. With one, a woman living in the Midwest, I started up a pen pal relationship that lasted perhaps three years. Yes, actual letters (this was the early 1980's, prior to the Internet), handwritten, snail mailed back and forth to each other.
She was planning to move to Arkansas and was interested in finding out more about it. Whatever she found out, she and her family (she, husband, three teens) ended up moving to another part of Arkansas.
We never met. We never really tried to. Writing was fine, and she had a busy life, given the three teens.
Eventually, we moved from Arkansas back to New York State, and the letters petered out.
I don't think I've written a non business letter in years. The last person I regularly wrote letters to was an aunt who passed away in 2003.
I never thought about becoming a pen pal again during lockdown, but if you do an Internet search you will find a lot of stories about unlikely pen pals.
I hope my pen pal is OK.
Did you ever have a pen pal?
