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gillo ([personal profile] gillo) wrote2018-02-28 11:27 pm

Sunshine, snowflakes, dust and ashes

We have winter weather here - unheard of for late February, according to the more hysterical media. (Daily Express, I'm glaring at you.) In Scotland it's actually serious, but here it's a light dusting and temperatures only a few degrees below freezing.

Folks from places with deep snow for months may mock, but it's actually quite rare here, thanks to the Gulf Stream, and snow by the foot is generally a once-a-decade phenomenon. That means it is really not cost-effective to invest in snow tyres/chains for cars or commercial vehicles, and local highways authorities have gritters but few snowploughs. At times like this, that's a problem.



On Monday we went up to Llandudno to inter my mother's ashes with my father's. The minister who conducted the funeral was there, so we had some prayers and a quasi-religious interment, but it was short, though rather moving. I've struggled to express my grief over the last few weeks - a sort of flatness, a lack of affect, rather than tears, though I did cry a little as my niece placed the little casket in the hole. Weirdly, the funeral director had brought a similar casket containing soil with him, for us to throw into the hole. My niece, with a doctorate in archaeologist, actually asked him about it; "I'm a professional archaeologist, and I know what human remains look like, and they aren't it..." At such times a smile is welcome.

We went back to Mum's bungalow afterwards, for a cuppa and a quick recon, which mostly brought home the huge scale of the task. She had done no sorting of stuff before she entered the home, so there is paperwork everywhere, and so. much. stuff. It's going to take some pretty intensive sorting before we can put the place on the market, which can't happen before we get the grant of probate. I have begun on the paperwork for that. The wheels of HMRC (tax/customs arm of government) grind slow but very fine, and there is much to do. We will be getting to know the A5 far too well over the next few months, I fear.

R and E (niece) each took a memento from the house. We are all very determined nobody will squabble over stuff, so it's nice to know that some of the things Mum liked but I don't will find a safe haven with E.

The "beast from the east", or "hysteria from Siberia" has arrived, and we have a little more snow today. Pretty, but no problem.

Garden in snow Feb 2018

Rhiannon likes the snow - there's more of it in Hertfordshire than here.

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It may get worse later in the week, as the Jet Stream has definitely skewed and we are getting weather from all sort of unexpected directions. Meanwhile, in the area around the North Pole, the temperature is above freezing for the first recorded time during the polar night. This is what climate change looks like, folks.

I gather Trump has mislaid another close associate. Ah well.
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[personal profile] geeklover80 2018-03-01 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

Aww, Rhiannon's coat is so cute!

Stacey
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[personal profile] thisbluespirit 2018-03-01 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
Daily Express, I'm glaring at you.)

Always a valid life choice!

We have an unusual amount of snow for us, I have to admit, and have been several degrees below freezing since Weds. (I'm in the NE but by the sea in a valley, so we only rarely get it.) But, lol, how the media do love a good weather panic!

And, aw, Rhiannon is a cutie!
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[personal profile] oursin 2018-03-01 09:43 am (UTC)(link)
Sympathies. HMRC are particularly slow - I thought I had got my father's estate all done and dusted and then some months down the line got a repayment of tax! The actual probate office (at least the one I dealt with) was quite efficient.

I can remember not so very many years ago severe wintry weather and snow at least as late as March. Will not insult goldfish with comparisons.
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[personal profile] cmcmck 2018-03-01 12:05 pm (UTC)(link)
We've also had more but nothing like the major dump we had before Christmas- just enough to cool the tootsies this time!

[personal profile] ex_peasant441 2018-03-01 03:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi Gill. I have a friend who was a funeral director for most of his career. I mentioned to him that you were concerned about the ashes looking wrong (without mentioning your name of course) and he said "I had a couple, literally 2 cases that I remember where they came back dark brown. Now if the remains were moist then I might question them, but if they were dark I wouldn't be concerned. There was a while everyone from our crematory came back black."
Hope this helps allay any concerns.
*hugs*
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[personal profile] ayebydan 2018-03-01 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm near Edinburgh and have two feet already and it is still falling. The wind is causing drifts now. My dad dug out our garden path and in front of our house this morning and now it looks like he never even touched it. Yet somehow, with snow forecast for another 48 hours, our red alert has been lifted. It is madness.

I kind of love that our transport Minister is tetchy on social media. He is like 'I have cameras! I can see the roads! GET OFF THE ROADS!!!!!'
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[personal profile] jerusha 2018-03-02 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

And Rhiannon is adorable, as usual!