Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – #Life #Aging – As We Age – Use It or Lose It – Part 2 – Brain Health by D. G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine

Welcome back to my latest post in my – As We Age series. In this article, I’m going to speak about methods for taking care of our brains to help in keeping them sharp and active.

This post is in no way speaking of dementia, Alzheimer’s or any other brain related disease, but focused on plain old aging and how to stay on top of our brain health.

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I remember reading something long ago about associating something to someone to help remember people’s names we’ve briefly been introduced to. I admit to being the worst at that sometimes. I know I have a bad habit of forgetting someone’s name I was formerly introduced to because if I’ve sized up the person and had no interest in what they had to say, for me it’s out of sight out of mind. But sometimes it also happens that if I met someone and we chimed, and I meet them again, their name may still be stuck on the tip of my tongue, yet I know the face. If I can’t recall their name, I have no issues telling them politely, “I’m sorry I know we’ve met, but for the life of me, I can’t remember your name.” Plain old honesty works.

How to associate a name with a person you’ve briefly met: You can make up a rhyme for that person or add a name to their name in your head associated with something or someone who relates to their name. If you can remember a person by face only, try making up a rhyme in your head with something they do or enjoy. – Mike the bike (if you met biking), Carrie the shoes girl.

Another good idea to help remember where we put something down, is to make a mental and conscious note the moment we set something down. This is why it’s best to have a place for our items we use regularly. For example, every time I go out, my keys are on the credenza in my front hall. After putting on coat and shoes, I grab them and go, never having to look for my keys, because I always set them down first as soon as I come home – in the same place! Conscious effort, familiarity.

It’s also not difficult to misplace our glasses and/or phones. I do this stupidity at least a few times a week where I unconsciously put down my phone wherever I may have ended a phone call. Thank goodness for my landline because I use it to call my cell phone to listen for the ring. As far as glasses go, they can be left anywhere – often I’ll find them somewhere under the covers in my bed after passing out reading. Other times, I have to search a bit – thankfully while wearing another pair of glasses!

Another peeve of mine is my ability to forget what I was saying midway through a conversation. I find this happens when people interrupt what I’m saying – and the rest gets lost. Oh yes, it does come back eventually, but often too late to finish what I was saying. My friends have a habit of interjecting with questions while I’m telling them something. To help alleviate this blank moment of word stuck I preface a conversation or story with – “Okay, let me tell you the details and please don’t interrupt until I’m finished because YOU KNOW I will lose my train of thought.” It works mostly, but human curiosity sometimes can’t wait to interject.

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It’s important that we challenge ourselves with doing things that we enjoy to keep the engines running smooth. Keeping sharp in our later years requires a good combination of various activities – Cognitive challenges, activities to keep us mobile, and another important component – social interaction. Mind and body go hand-in-hand when it comes to keeping brains sharp. Under that umbrella also comes proper nutrition and supplementation. If the body isn’t fed well, it affects both, our minds and bodies, causing brain fog and low energy. Keeping busy is the name of the game . . .

Please hop over to Sally’s blog to read the conclusion and my tips for keeping busy.

©DGKaye2026

Source: Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – #Life #Aging – As We Age – Use It or Lose It – Part 2 – Brain Heath by D. G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine

Sunday Book Review – Don’t Die Broke: Your Step By Step Guide to The Life You Desire by Alicia F. Gow

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m reviewing a memoir/selfhelp book by Alicia F. Gow that inspires on how to move forward toward your goals in life and how to attain them.

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Don’t Die Broke: Your Step-by-Step Guide to the Life You Desire is not about money the way people expect–it’s about mindset, identity, and refusing to live a small life just because of where you start. The title is provocative on purpose, but the heart of the book is really about designing a life that actually fulfills you–financially, emotionally, and spiritually.

A little backstory: Why did I write this book, and what’s it about?

Growing up in a poverty-stricken home and a toxic environment meant the life I led left much to be desired. I was crass and uncouth, broke and broken. I desperately needed healing and purpose.

After becoming a single teenage mom, I realized that I had to change my future. Not just for me, but for the child I was now responsible for. So that’s what I did.

Through a series of mindset transformation–unlearning old beliefs and patterns and breaking generational habits–I was able to design the life I now lead.

My early life was filled with much pain–darkness, abuse, depression, anxiety, self-loathing, you name it. I wrote this book to share the exact steps I took to transform my life into something I truly enjoy. Not what others said it would–or should–be, but what I truly wanted it to be.

My story is one of resilience, hope, and proof that transformation is possible no matter where you are in life. I wrote this book to be a lighthouse of hope for people dreaming of more–more joy, more fulfilling lives, more peace.

The book is unique due to several core elements:

  • Unique Goal-Setting Frameworks: It introduces the Anti-Dream (defining the future you must avoid) as a starting point, and the Dream Life Calculator—a four-step process for making your ideal life tangible, including estimating its monthly cost.
  • Deep Psychological Focus: It explores the science of self-sabotage through concepts like Defensive Failure and the Three Mindset Traps that prevent personal growth.
  • Authentic Cultural Context: The principles are grounded in my powerful personal story of overcoming deep poverty in rural Jamaica, utilizing cultural references.
  • Unapologetic Stance: It takes a firm position against the concept of “nobility in poverty,” framing it as a destructive cycle that must be intentionally broken.


How many dreams have died because someone believed they weren’t enough?

Don’t let yours be next.

You weren’t born to just survive. To stay stuck in survival mode. To bury your ambition and just make peace with a life you never asked for.

This isn’t a get-rich-quick scheme. This is a Don’t-Die-Broken guide. It’s a blueprint for lasting change.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

  • Break free from generational mindsets and limiting beliefs
  • Redesign your life based on your values and vision
  • Heal from trauma and rewrite your story
  • Fix your relationship with money and unlock financial clarity

Who is this for?

  • For the one who’s exhausted from pretending.
  • For the one who’s tired of playing small.
  • For the one who still has a flicker of belief left, even if it’s buried under fear.

Your life is calling. Don’t let your dream end up in the graveyard with a million others who didn’t make it. It’s not too late. You’re not too broken or too far gone.

You were born to thrive. Don’t die broke or broken. Start living on purpose.

This book is a wonderful practical guide for living your best life. Like the author points out, we aren’t all born into an easy life, but we all have the ability to change our lives in a more positive direction.

As stated in the blurb, the author carefully maps out each chapter, touching on self-growth, not weighing what you have against what another has, and most importantly, learning how to focus on the prize – manifesting in positive light what we wish our outcome to be. Setting goals and keeping the right mindset is the focus on success.

The book is broken down nicely into sections about the process from the initial dream we have, to instilling mindset goals and avoiding negativity that often is the reason for self-sabotage and deflation. A great guide to help move your life in a more healthier and wealthier direction.

©DGKaye2026