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11/10/08 04:06 pm - BERJAYAlittlemisssatan - calling all academics...


Hey Everyone,

I decided to make a community that was entirely dedicated to women and academia. We are a strange breed often typecast as Blue Stockings and Spinsters we work and study in a male dominated field, but unlike lady engineers and politicians often we slip beneath the radar of that particular paradigm: women in male dominated industries. If you think of a stereotypical 'lecturer' or 'academic' what do you see? Dusty old men shuffling around in corduroy and the occasional frumpy spinster with bad posture?
Who are we, this university minority and social elite? At undergraduate level women are over represented so why are all the post-grad students, tutors, professors and heads of school almost always men? These aren't the only issues that warrant discussion, it just seems rather pressing that we address our status as both 'privileged' and unrepresented minority.
Ibe out the link below for those of you who are keen, i just mainly want to get some discussion going on issues relating to other women like me, academics. I often feel quite adrift in my University and i think it would be really awesome if i had an academic peer group to discuss important issues with like; what kind of tea is best for drinking whilst studying?
community.livejournal.com/satansstocking/ 
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11/1/08 09:58 pm - BERJAYAjade_kinneas - Free Years Subscription to Prevention Magazine

Hello. I got this from my mail. You can get a free subscription of Prevention magazine. I've subscribed to it and I think it's a good mag. It covers various areas of women's lives, children, physical health, sexual health. A ton of interesting things. I have all my issues still after I read them, though mom says it's because I'm a pack rat. But I beg to differ! I like keeping my information at hand, that's all. Just thought I'd share.


free subscription of Prevention magazine
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10/10/07 09:22 pm - BERJAYApocketsbuttons - Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret

Hi! I am working on an art project about the book "Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret" by Judy Blume. If this book had an impact on you growing up, maybe you could fill out this quick survey? I know I would never have become a feminist without these books. Did they have a similar impact on you? If you have any questions or comments, or, if you would like a collection of excerpts to jog your memory, feel free to e-mail me at pocketsbuttons@gmail.com . thanks!

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9/12/07 05:31 pm - BERJAYAdynomatica - "Invisible" and "It's" Illustrated Poems

These poems are from my book, "Dead Wrong - the truth about domestic violence, incest and child abuse."
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7/30/07 10:01 pm - BERJAYApartyupgal4ever - I hope everyone is having a relaxing summer!

Hello all,

It's been quiet in this parts for some time. Summer is in high gear (well in this hemisphere). What is everyone up to? Any brain storms happening on future events? Feminist networking? Jobs/volunteer work?

Share what's going on in your feminist lives. I will try to post soon about some of my activities at work.

Take care!

-Melanie
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3/14/07 09:14 pm - BERJAYAclpp - CLPP annual reproductive justice conference

The Civil Liberties & Public Policy Program at Hampshire College invites you to our free annual reproductive justice conference at Hampshire College in Amherst, Massachusetts from Friday, March 30-Sunday, April 1, 2007.  More information can be found on our website: http://clpp.hampshire.edu

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Do you want to learn more about reproductive freedom and social justice? Or are you a longtime activist looking for inspiration and rejuvenation? Whether you are new to the movement or a veteran organizer, join us at the 21st annual national conference “From Abortion Rights to Social Justice: Building the Movement for Reproductive Freedom.�?

On March 30-April 1, 2007, campus and community activists will be gathering at Hampshire College to unite for reproductive justice. We are expecting a large turnout—last year there were over 1000 participants from the US and abroad. We offer more than 30 workshops and trainings. Conference speakers address reproductive freedom as it relates to a broad range of social justice initiatives including economic justice, health care reform, racial equality, the war on terrorism, freedom from violence, youth liberation, civil liberties, and LGBTQ rights.

Over the weekend, you will deepen your understanding of issues you already know about, make new connections, and unite with others who are passionate about working for social justice.

Free housing (in Hampshire dorms) and food are provided for the conference weekend. Free childcare and sign language interpretation is also available.

For more information, check out our website at http://clpp.hampshire.edu or contact us at (413) 559-6976 or clpp@hampshire.edu
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3/12/07 09:11 pm - BERJAYApartyupgal4ever - Call for Proposals for Upcoming Conference

I'm assisting the Desiree Alliance with their upcoming conference and thought there might be some interest in this community. The Desiree Alliance is "a coalition of sex workers, social scientists, professional sex educators, scholars, health professionals, and their supporting networks." Their conference is on July 19th-20th in San Francisco, CA. The conference details are under the cut. Please feel free to forward this to interested parties.

Thanks for reading!

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2/6/07 04:37 pm - BERJAYAhalation - introduction

hello,

i'm 29 years old & currently living in tucson. i've just joined the community about two minutes ago, and it looks like a lovely place. i'm interested in a lot of women's issues, including reproductive rights/health and GLBTIQ issues, but my primary area of focus is eating disorders/eating disorder education.

i'm actually an mfa'd writer (from the school of the art institute of chicago--anyone else an alum?) and am working on a book-length work of fiction about eating disordered individuals, called 'swallow'. you can read excerpts from this book and others i've written, both poetry and prose on my web site, here and here.

i'm really looking forward to getting to know the group and its members.

deborah
 

2/2/07 11:57 am - BERJAYAkitkatlj - IMPACT Defense Against Multiple Assailants class

(cross-posted on a few relevant communities)


     Fighting multiple unarmed assailants bore some similarities to fighting single unarmed assailants. Firstly, the premise of the attack was sexual assault or some other act that implied the assailants wanted you alive and aware of what they were doing until they felt that they had managed to perform this act. Therefore, assailants were more likely to grab and restrain us than to throw a deadly punch.

     As in Single Unarmed Assailants class, the presumption was that they were out to
  1. convince us to stop hitting them but not "fight" the way men fight each other and
  2. do sexual things we didn’t want them to do (or, as I said, something like that).
     This class is not adequate preparation for fighting multiple henchmen in a Jet Li movie whose only goal is to kill you as fast as possible.

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     Another similarity to the single assailant class was the idea that men who attack women (or anyone they perceive as belonging to a “weaker” social category, like children or the elderly) are easily frightened by the yells and blows of an opponent who is fighting a "real" fight. The evidence (crime reports, interviews, etc.) shows that this is even truer of assailants who feel the need to have a whole group to be sufficiently intimidating to a woman.

     It is also truer with multiple assailants because the reasons for the attack are often focused on feeling masculine in the eyes of other group members rather than in the eyes of the woman. This can make a lot of members of the group lose commitment and run away or give up as soon as they see their only judges failing the intimidate-and-abuse mission.



     The neatest trick we learned was lining up assailants. Though they roam and threaten like a wolf pack, they don’t move like a wolf pack. Trained combat teams have better things to do: they have Jet Lis and Uma Thurmans to fight. Thirteen-year-olds are not combat teams who know how to move in relation to one another. They probably formed their group 30 minutes ago!

     So if they try to come at you from 2 or 3 different directions, you back up and move left or right until BERJAYA becomes BERJAYA. However, it doesn’t take long for the ones in back to figure out that their path is blocked, so you must hit or kick the front one as soon as you get that line and then keep moving to make a new line out of the assailants (preferably including the one you just mobilized, because he/she might be mobile sooner than you think).

     If one does manage to run around you (instead of you keeping him in front of you by backing up as fast as he’s approaching your flank side), you might indeed get grabbed from behind. We learned several handy techniques for that! We learned:
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  • how to clock someone behind us in the head
  • how to hurt him in the groin despite having our backs to him
  • how to take out someone in front of us if that person seems too close to first hurt the rear person and take the time to turn around and strike a better blow, and
  • most importantly, no matter how many or few assailants we’ve struck, to see exit opportunities from the sandwich and take them right away.
How’d we learn? Practice makes better!
(One of our instructors refuses to say, "Practice makes perfect.")



     We also learned how to hurt them and thus escape if they’re pinning our arms and legs to the ground. Again, as with single unarmed assailants, it’s important not to think, "He’s holding me and there’s a hand coming to grope me!" and to think, "He’s at my feet, restraining them from moving in 2 directions, but not a third. I will move them in this third direction and use them to hurt him. If he leans in to try to grope me, all the easier, but I’ll figure it out no matter what he does."
     (Strong abs make this easier, by the way! Balance and gravity make it possible even without them, though.)

     Same goes for people holding your arms. Don’t worry about what they or their buddies are doing to your breasts and crotch. Focus on the ones pinning down your weapons (limbs) and only once they’re too immobilized/stunned to grab back your weapons is it helpful to worry about [using those weapons and] getting rid of or escaping out from under people with their hands on your privates.



     Since an attacked person can keep the fight much more manageable by staying mobile, we learned new kicks and hits that weren’t taught in the Single Unarmed Assailants class. There we almost tried to lie down on the ground as fast as possible. Here we had to learn to stay confident and strong while standing.

     We also learned to "shuffle" because walking, running, or traveling sideways by stepping with criss-crossing feet (I’m so bad about doing that!) is more likely to make us trip. It’s not all-important, but it helps.



     The strike-once-and-only-once-and-move tactic doesn’t last forever. Once every assailant has had a few blows they generally pause longer to recover. If you have put two on the ground ahead of you and a third is staggering away from you on your left from a blow to the head, when you draw the fourth out to your right and hit him/her, when he/she bends over or goes down, you might see that no one else is on his/her feet yet. If you see that, it is safe to throw one, two, or more kicks against the same assailant and knock him/her unconscious (ball-clutching or head-clutching assailants can recover and run quickly enough to catch you half a mile down the road. Unconscious ones give you time to get to a safe place and report the attack to the police).



     Towards the end of the fight, you use both the one-hit-and-move strategy and the hit-until-knockout strategy as appropriate until all assailants have been knocked out ("ASSESS!") or truly run away ("LOOK!").

     Use verbal assertion to dissuade any menacing onlookers from jumping in to start a new fight. Fight if attacked. Look, assess, and repeat if there are more menacing onlookers.

     Leave the scene, watching where you’re going. They’re all unconscious or gone--you checked earlier. Don’t get hit by a bus or trip in a gutter by looking over your shoulder while you walk or jog.

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That’s what we learned in class!
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1/14/07 08:29 pm - BERJAYApartyupgal4ever - Women's Studies Conference on March 24, 2007 in Albany NY

Hello everyone. I was emailed about this upcoming conference that is looking for submissions up until February 2nd, 2007.


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