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13 09 2011

I have found myself in many improbable situations over the last few years: running from a pack of wild dogs in Arequijpa, Peru at 1am on a Friday night, hiding behind a line of fire from a disgruntled elephant in Nepal, being spat at by a witch in La Paz, not to mention having my ipod thoroughly examined by a border guard while entering North Korea (in case it was a sneaky device used by Irish spies). When I first came up with the ridiculous idea of quitting my job and going travelling I never would have guessed that a highlight would be sitting on the flat roof of an adobe hut, lit only by moonlight, sharing a roasted cob of corn with my ‘best friend’, The Little Prince.

 As I have less than a week left in Paga I had decided to pay an extended  overnight visit to his village which is a 35 minute cycle from just north of the middle of nowhere in ruralGhana. They have no electricity, so after the spectacular sunset had finished decorating the surrounding savannah the huts were lit only by the occasional small fire as the women prepared the evening meal, and the moonlight which also lit up the surrounding fields of maize and corn in a magical silver twinkle. Not enough to make out any individual plants but enough for your imagination to run free and picture the animals and people coming home after a hard day’s work in the fields. Not a mobile phone in sight, the nearest signal might appear only after a good 15 minute cycle down the nearest dirt road, if you are lucky.

 Chatting on the roof before dinner, overlooking the walled compound of eleven or so huts – otherwise known as the Chief’s Palace – I had noticed a few structures in the compound which had seriously deteriorated, with no roofs or any visible signs of inhabitants. Those families have died out My Little Prince explained,  also many leave to go to the city, if they do then their huts are abandoned, waiting for new people to one day move in. I asked if anyone ever returns here to live after being in the city. Sure he replied, they sometimes come back with wives or sometimes they just return after they have found what they had been looking for. He didn’t offer what it might be they might be looking for and I didn’t want to ask – I just loved the idea that sometimes they found it and returned to this simple place satisfied.

 People sleep out on the flat roofs when the temperature gets unbearable during the dry season. Or sometimes they just come up to eat roasted corn and chat – like this evening.

 I learned that My Little Prince wasn’t really the son of the chief. His father had died when he was a child and now he looks after his mother, grandmother and three siblings. He toils in the fields during the rainy season, tending and harvesting crops that will hopefully keep them fed in the coming ten months of dry season. The Chief probably calls him a prince because he lives on the ‘palace’ compound. Or maybe it’s because it’s because he is so genuine, kind and admirable that that is the very least honour that should be bestowed on him.

 As well as taking care of his family he also continues his education, cycling for an hour each way to the school in the next big town, Navrongo.  Every day he gets up at 5am and when he gets home after 5pm he does his homework by the light of a tiny, dim, battery fed light. Never once have I heard him complain about anything. Far from it, he is proud of his village and his family and his eagerness to learn more.

 He lives in a hut that has one tiny thin mattress on the ground, a ledge that has his school books, some pamphlets and a Bible. There is just about enough room for two plastic chairs and a fold away table which he opens out only at meal times. The roof is made of strips of interwoven wood which occasionally lets in some water during the heavy rains he admitted with a giggle. He gave me his bed for the night while he slept (or said he did although I seriously question anyone’s ability to do it) on the hard ground of his hut in the space where the chairs are usually kept.

 That night the whole village came together in honour of the visit of some other volunteers and myself who were all staying in the area. They heated up the goat skins of their drums over the naked flames of little fires they kept burning for this purpose. Special whistle players were invited for the occasion and a talented man used an overturned metal bucket and a stick to add to the very African rhythm of the night.

 With the drumming getting more and more frantic a circle was formed and the least self-conscious of villagers began dancing, one at a time, displaying what at times looked like a chicken having an epileptic fit. Awkward white men dancing this was not!  As the night progressed, more and more people joined the festivities coming from homes and farms from all around the area – each eager to have their few seconds to display their dancing prowess in the midst of the enthusiastic onlookers.

 The importance of such an event was explained to me later. They only happen twice a year or so maybe for a wedding or funeral and it’s when the single members of the communities hope to choose a partner – presumably picking their favourite chicken dancer of the group. The dancers were lit by a sole torch shone down on the circle by the tallest member of the group who must have had an unbearably sore arm by the end of the night. Dust was kicked up into the air as the frantic dancers stamped their legs and flapped their arms, the torch light illuminating the falling dust as if a substitute for dry ice.

 In the morning My Little Prince brought me a breakfast of soup and Tuo Zafi (TZ) – a jelly like substance made of grains and other unidentified squidgy ingredients. You break some off and use it to scoop up the soup – all with your hand. Nobody told me that the TZ is scalding but I learned that instantly as I plunged my hands deep into it and let out a roar. I can’t see Kellogs marking it as a new breakfast option but it was great to have another slice of life in the village – even if it did result in second degree burns.

 It was only one night – a few hours really but a wonderful opportunity to step momentarily into another’s shoes. After our chat on the rooftop the evening before we had spent a good ten minutes there, in silence munching on the delicious corn which had been prepared on the open fire in front of his hut moments before, picked from the field a couple of hours before that. I didn’t want to ask any more questions and he seemed to enjoy just sitting there too, happy for two friends to simply gaze below at the moonlit village or up into the starry sky. It is this moment that will be my most valued memory of my time in Ghana.

 As I fell asleep later I wondered if any new couples were formed. I found myself saying a quick prayer that even one match was made – maybe one hut would be restored and a new family would grow to live in this special community. I also wondered if I would ever get a chance to return and see if that had happened.

 Who knows, maybe some day after I have found whatever it is I am looking for…





There’s something you should know, I just came to say Hello

9 08 2011

The Ghanaians must truly be one of the friendliest, most welcoming people in Africa. Every morning while cycling to work people greet me from both sides of the road with a cheery Good Morning White Man or the local equivalent. Every time I meet someone new they invariable open with You are welcome! The kids here greet me with a hearty Good Morning regardless of the time of day, evening or night and the older folk erupt into delighted hysterics when I attempt to respond to their salutations in Kasem, the local language.

So I have to admit to really being taken aback when I started noticing in the last few days that some people hissed at me when I walked past them. Was this some latent resentment for their horrific colonial past? Considering the disgusting history of slave trade which took place here for so long I couldn’t blame any of them if they never wanted to lay eyes on a white person as long as they lived.

Whenever I heard the loud shrill hsssss, almost always from a group of women, I quickly put my head down and shuffled by quickly hoping to avoid anything unpleasant. This had been happening regularly, especially in the busy market and I cocooned myself in denial and pretended that it simply wasn’t happening. Until yesterday when it occurred at a part of the market that was a dead end. The hissing was so loud and obvious and there was no escape route so I had no option but to be brave and face the taunt. When I looked up there were three women sitting down, all beaming gigantic smiles at me and the liveliest of the three had her hand held out to shake mine. Taken totally off guard I immediately responded in kind and received a hearty handshake and the usual You are welcome white man!  I thanked them in my pigeon Kasem and they screamed in delighted and laughed so hard and so long that I could still hear them at it after I had long left the market area.

When I got home I asked Weja, our source of all local knowledge, and he explained that when someone doesn’t know your name they’ll simply hiss instead – just to get your attention. Absolutely no disrespect intended – they just want to get to know you, that’s all!

Another day down, another Ghanaian mystery solved.





One, two princes kneel before you

8 08 2011

With my almost irrational loathing of all things royal I find it utterly perplexing that I have to date met three princes in Paga.

In fact the very first Ghanaian I met was Prince. He was the saviour who furnished me with the address that allowed my dramatic entry into the country. Everyone calls him Prince and I’m almost certain that that is simply his name. Some of the names here are quite charming while others are baffling. I’ve met people called Justice, Oxygen, Bismark, Success, Charity, Blessing and even an Adolf.

The second Prince I met was whizzing by on his motorbike when he caught sight of the two white men out walking – so of course he veered over for a chat. I am the prince he announced and so I will talk to you. As we are more than happy to converse with locals of any rank we nodded and offered our hands in friendship.

A handshake in Ghana however is not the simple motion we are all familiar with but more like a well coordinated mating dance involving shaking, pressing and hugging the hands all topped off with a grand finale of finger clicks. The idea is that both parties are competent enough so that the clicking is achieved by each person sliding their index finger off the other’s so it lands on the thumb with a satisfying and impressively audible pop. Needless to say this is a constant source of embarrassment to me as I have yet to produce any sound whatsoever and usually offer a separate individual snap once the handshake is long over. The Ghanaians being ridiculously friendly people indulge me this inadequacy and never stop trying to initiate me all the same.

This Prince however wasn’t amused. By anything. Both his eyes were red and we couldn’t establish if he was drunk or stark raving mad. Either way his conversation was even more confusing than we are now used to and so we both just nodded at him and smiled, hoping that that would be enough to satisfy his need for our attention. With a stubbornly serious facial expression he informed us that seeing as he was a prince he would be paying us a proper visit, soon. We used that cue to take our leave and said goodbye leaving him to make his royal exit on his speedy bike.

The third prince is my favourite. In fact I am his best friend. And I met him in the most unorthodox way possible. We had gone to a nearby village with a whole bunch of volunteers to be officially welcomed into the community in a ceremony overseen by the Chief of the area. He himself arrived amid much singing and dancing, with the largest umbrella I have ever seen carried over his head while three older ladies fanned him to further keep his royal self cool in the extreme heat. The ceremony was captivating as we were introduced and then welcomed, first as a group and subsequently individually. All with special dances and songs. It did however drag on somewhat and eventually my bladder had reached emergency capacity after drinking bag upon bag of water to stave off dehydration.

Now in Ghana the world is your toilet and, especially for men, it is never difficult to just slip off somewhere to relieve yourself. However being within the walls of this adobe village surrounded by enthusiastic revelers I hadn’t a clue what to do. So I decided to discretely ask the man I knew best: the man who had helped arrange my position at the clinic.

Where can I go to the toilet I asked him in a whisper as he was with some other men from the village. Hmmm he answered, okay let’s see… and then went quiet, deep in thought for at least a minute making me feel more and more uncomfortable. Surely I am not the first person who has ever needed to relieve himself in the village I thought to myself as I watched him root around in his briefcase before brandishing an A4 printed page. Will this do? He said to me hopefully.

I couldn’t help but laugh and then quickly disguised it with a cough. Ahm, actually I just need to …um…urinate!

Ohhh he said with a huge grin no problem. Vincent here will bring you around the back – no problem at all.

And so Vincent and I walked away from the group and once we rounded the corner he turned to me and asked with an adorable look of expectation will you be my best friend? Of course I will I agreed and he took my hand and led me first to the spot where I could do my business and then on a tour of the entire compound. He is one of the most immediately likable people I have ever met in my life, wonderfully proud of his village and his modest room where he has his bed, a couple of ancient faded pictures and a place to boil water. He offered me a gift of a huge bag of peanuts he had himself harvested and asked me when he could see me again.  When I replied that I would be back as soon as I can he began laughing and again grabbed my hand and led me to one of the villagers who had a camera and demanded that our photo be taken.

BERJAYA

I cycled to the village again last Saturday and Vincent’s welcome was even greater than before. This time we walked around the huge expanse of land the village is centred on. He explained what crops grew where, which animals did what and asked countless questions about Ireland. As I looked around at the green savannah lands peppered with huge trees, maize, millet, peanuts, yams, peppers and bursting with all sorts of domestic animal life I told him he was very lucky to live here. And I honestly meant it. They don’t have electricity or running water but what they do have is a well founded pride in themselves and their land. Theirs is a completely self sufficient life and a community brimming with good will and harmony, even in the face of hardships I couldn’t even imagine.

The Chief would like to talk with you Vincent informed me when we returned to the buildings.  When I was seated in the cool shade of the Chief’s quarters the man himself shook my hand and thanked me from the bottom of his heart for befriending his son, the prince. I never knew that my friend was his son and therefore had his own important title. I had brought Vincent a gift of a torch and some extra batteries and this had been hugely appreciated. In return the chief handed over a plastic bag brimming with fresh eggs, as a thank you and welcome from the village.

I left with a genuine promise that I’d come to visit again very soon. I also cycled away with a much more accommodating attitude to royalty than I ever thought possible.








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