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Tuesday, January 13, 2026

Back So Soon?

 I guess I will have to eat my words now because I think this is too good not to pass on. 

Never say never.

 

And for some contrast, I will share these thoughts: 

We watched “The Golden Girls 40 Years of Laughter and Friendship” last night. It was an ABC special that we TiVo-ed when it aired back in November I believe. It actually brought tears to my eyes and not from laughter.

What I was feeling was grief. Not necessarily grief for the loss of the wonderful women who stared in the show, but more for the times in which the show took place. We were fighting for our rights and freedom and our lives - and we were invincible and strong and steadfast. And as difficult as things were for us and others we were winning and making progress. We were high on our pride and confidence.

Today is dark with an evil my generation has not seen, not even during the height of the AIDS crisis and there certainly was evil directed at us then.

Today we are on the verge of losing it all.

I grieve for what we have already lost; I grieve for those happier times and the laughter; and I grieve for what is being destroyed by our own government. I grieve for the loss of innocence and safety and reality as we knew it.

We have a disease that even the Golden Girls cannot cure.

Friday, January 9, 2026

Update

 I haven't been posting and my checking in on other blogs has been sporadic. Not for any particular reason except I probably spend too much time on JMG and YouTube and putting myself together in the morning. 

After the morning oblations and hearing aids and exercises for the knee and shoulder and whatever ails me at the moment (I am not one for exercises) and doctor, dentist, pharmacy trips and grocery shopping and cooking and laundry....And the fact that I've kind of run out of things to talk about: New Mexico is monotonous, and nothing of importance has happened (or if it did, it wasn't that interesting), family, food, friends, hubby, rants, politics, outrage, LGBTQ, even the trip to California this past September - I've been there, done that.  I've written it all before. 

To take it one step further, I'm going through Reluctant Rebel past posts from the oldest to newest, saving what I like in a separate file and reverting them all to "draft" status. Eventually I will probably be deleting the entire blog for good. Just so you won't wonder what happened to me...

There is a slogan that reminds hikers to "Leave No Trace".  As a hiker on this earth, I'm afraid that will be impossible, but as a hiker on this internet thing, perhaps I will leave behind fewer breadcrumbs and so be a bit harder to find.

I will leave you with this:

May we all survive the insanity of these frightening and horrific times. I appreciate all of you, your comments, your stopping by now and then, and visiting you on your own Blogs. 

Thank you all and PEACE, my friends. 

Tuesday, September 23, 2025

Wall Art and Other Stuff

Just a post about nothing serious. 

Neither Leon nor I are sophisticated art collectors by any stretch of the meaning of those words. Most of the "art" on our walls is by family members, some by me, some from thrift stores or flea markets, some were gifts, some are photos and others actually t-shirts and postcards and stuff from the junk drawer. 

Here, in no particular order, are the fine art items from our gallery (house) walls. Complete with reflections on the glass or plastic in the frames.

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An ink drawing I did circa 1986, Cape Cod, MA

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A photo of Nubble Lighthouse Leon bought in Maine

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A photo I took of the Pismo Dunes 2017

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A photo I took of the Tidal Marsh, Provincetown, Cape Cod, MA

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A wool weaving by Trujillo's NM

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A wool weaving by Truillo's NM


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A garage sale item on our back deck

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One of those things Leon had to have from some artsy store

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I think this came from Re-Store or a thrift shop

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We bought this at an antique/flea market (it's out in the courtyard and it's beginning to chip)

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I bought this at an estate sale after swearing I never buy stuff and was just going to "look" around.

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My dad painted this in 1947

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Dad painted this around a magazine picture in the center - as an art project at the Senior Citizen Center 

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A blurry print of someplace in Paris?

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William Michael Harnett "Just Dessert" Print that I got from Aunt Mary's estate  
     On the internet a digital print of this is under $5 and a framed one like this goes for $125 up to $295

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Italian cypress from a thrift shop

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My dad painted this in 1928 at the age of 14

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My dad painted this in 1933 (I always found this one somewhat intriguing) 

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Another of dad's senior citizen art class paintings

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This was a gift from neighbors. Signed Susan Birdsong

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This was a fading Black and White Photo poster that I painted over with acrylics many years ago.  I couldn't do this again if my life depended on it
                                        
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Another gift from a neighbor "Blue Door" signed Wolly Salsberg (?)

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                                     A commissioned work from a dog owner friend, Dottie in CT.                             Our dog Benni and Dottie's dog Katija "Best Friends" Signed Nicoletta Poli 
                                                    
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Another of dad's senior art class paintings. Looks like San Luis Obispo CA or any other mission church.
                                   
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A gift from Leon's mom that graces the bathroom wall

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Photos from Ptown the also inbathroom

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A t-shirt that was almost worn out

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An artsy-craftsy thingy

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Just a postcard and sunglasses (I love the beach, don'tcha know)

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Found this card of Gardner McKay (who I had the hots for when I was like 12 or 14) at a flea market

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The card I got for Leon when we got our first camper (no more tents)

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The logo from a t-shirt

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A photo of the "ruins" of Provincetown Theatre

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A Provincetown photo 

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A photo of a display in a shop window, Provincetown

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A photo of a car sticker and reflection of Provincetown architecture

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Photo, lone sailboat, Provinctown

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A collection of "Jazz" postcards from New Orleans I tediously framed

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Junk drawer junk in clear acrylic

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Leon bought this years ago. A photo montage(?) of when they imploded some building in Hartford, CT

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A t-shirt I got in Rome, 1968 "Romulus, Remus and the Wolf, S.P.Q.R". (Senatus PopulusQue Romanus)

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My sister Sr. MaryAnn's watercolor of a greenhouse at the convent where she last lived

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Leon and me and Benni painted by Leon's sister Brenda

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Bought these prints in Rome 1968 and framed them

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Some thrift shop wall art

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Lisa Minelli in Cabaret painted by my brother Mike

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"Cars in Parking Lot at Sunset" Another of dad's senior citizen paintings. Leon loves it because of the cars

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I think this print is of Morro Bay. Leon bought it or acquired it.

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Another of dad's senior paintings. I love the beach.

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Senior citizen Dad painted this from a picture in National Geographic, I think. Something weird with the bridge railing.

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