Puttering

We had the day off today for Veterans Day. The only plans we had was to relax by a roaring fire and watch movies. Then Jeffrey remembered he had scheduled an appointment mid-day to get my car’s oil changed, tires rotated, and get a general inspection. While he was gone, I did a few small projects:

  1. Changed the bases on some of my action figures to smaller ones that take up less space so I could fit more on the shelf.
  2. Sorted my different size action figure bases into separate bags.
  3. Printed out a tiny label with the name of one of my support staff to put on her Santa Ornament. (We have 3 support staff, but I could only find Santa Ornaments with 2 of their names, so I bought some clear adhesive paper to print her name and put on her ornament.)
  4. Gathered the things I’ve been instructed to bring for Friendsgiving this weekend: Clear Display stands, my Crochet bag, a bottle of Amaretto, and some Gluten Free Rolls.
  5. Collected leftover Christmas decorations to bring to my Mom’s to use when I decorate her house.
  6. Took pictures of some items I want to sell.

Not much, but it was a little productivity. I finished just as Jeffrey got home, so we returned to the sofa with Harvey in front of the fire to finish out the day watching favorite shows.

Not a bad day off, if I do say so myself.

Firsty

First snow of the season…

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Means first fire of the season…

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As you can see, Breen Acres is fully decorated. It’s kinda weird to be completely decorated so early, but also kinda cool. I’ll save the full tour for later in November, so as not to send the “no decorations before Thanksgiving” crowd into a frenzy.

Tomorrow, we have the day off (Veterans Day) so we will be enjoying the day chilling by the fire (is that an oxymoron?) and watching movies.

We hosted a lovely brunch with the G&G gang this past Sunday…

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We realized we’ve all been hanging together since meeting (and working together) at a Summer Day Camp in 1994. Wow! 31 years. How many friendships last that long these days?

It was a good kick off to the holiday season. This weekend, we head to CT to see Hamilton (for the 3rd time) Friday night, and then enjoy a home cooked Friendsgiving meal on Saturday at the BFJ’s house with mutual friends.

We don’t have a free weekend again until the second weekend of January.

ZOIKS!

In the…ahem…Spirit of things!

Lest you think I would just skip over Halloween and go right to X-mas decorating, here is the current decor at Breen Acres:

Pretty good considering we used to just put out 1 light up pumpkin, eh? There are also some ghost and pumpkin solar lights out along the driveway.

I put a crockpot of “Taco Chicken Chili” on this morning, so dinner will by easy peasy.

I will pick up the female parental unit after work and bring her back here, where she will pitch herself in front of the door and wait for tricker treaters to arrive.

All the while, the BFJ and I will be sipping cocktails, watching Halloween Specials, and checking the porch cams for DILFs bringing their kids to trick or treat.

Should be a fun night!

In darkest night

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Our power is out. We lost it about 45 minutes ago. We have enough flashlights, candles, and charged motion light bars to help us navigate through the house safely, and my laptop and iPad are fully charged so we have some entertainment (at least until the batteries run out.) I hope it doesn’t stay out too for too long or we’ll have to deal with two refrigerators full of food.

I’m usually good for the first 2 hours of a blackout. After that I start to get antsy. But I should be in bed asleep by then. Hopefully lights will be on by Morning. The BFJ is arriving around 7am tomorrow and we both have to work from here which will be problematical without power. Also, tomorrow is All Hallow’s Eve and the mother person is coming to hand out candy to the crotch fruit (although a dark house lit by candles might just add to the evening’s atmosphere.)

The BFJ is here for the weekend because Saturday morning, bright and early, we start decorating my house for X-Mas. It’s earlier than I have ever decorated, but BFJ really wanted to help me and this is his only free weekend. Hopefully the power will get back on by then.

FYI: The image above had nothing to do with this blog post, by the way. But I loved it and wanted to Post it.

198 days to go (after today.)

Heartwarming

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It has been a very productive weekend. Through the use of Facebook marketplace and Freecycle, I have managed to get rid of five bags of plush animals, four metal chairs, a set of 10 shot glasses, 2 Xmas trees, and about 2 bins worth of Christmas ornaments. Plus a few odds and ends.

Some of it I’m giving away. Some of it I’m selling (for VERY little money.) And sometimes, even if they come expecting to pay, I give it to them for free.

Getting a few bucks for things I don’t want or need is nice, but way better than that, is the feeling the gratitude from the people I have given stuff for free and how wonderful that gratitude makes me feel. It feels almost as good as getting a new batch of comic books to read! (ALMOST!)

My two favorites:

A sweet lady who showed up to get my two pencil trees. Her friend saw my add on line and asked if I would please hold them for her friend who was in need. After she arrived and we loaded the trees into her car, I asked her if she could also use some decorations. And she excitedly said “yes.” So I brought up 2 large and 2 small containers of ornaments. Then I asked if she’d also like a matching pre-lit garland, tree ribbon, tree topper, and big red metal bow. She got so excited she started jumping up and down.

After I loaded the last bit into the car, she told me how grateful she was, because her father loves Christmas and she really wanted to make it special for him this year. Thanks to my trees and ornaments, now she could. She gave me a big hug, called me her “Christmas Angel” and said she felt blessed to meet someone so kind. I had to hold back tears. Something so simple to us as getting rid of some extra decor to free up space in the basement, meant she would be able to do something wonderful for her father. Shortly after she left, I received this message from her friend:

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Again, tears…

My next favorite, another sweet lady came by to take our collection of Christmas moose (which no longer fits into my decorating scheme.) As we were putting her bags of moose in the car, she explained she works with special needs children and these would be wonderful toys for them that they would really enjoy, especially because they were “soft and cuddly.” I asked if she’d like some more, and when she quickly nodded yes, Jeffrey and I ran around our rooms and collected enough plush animals from every corner of the house – goats, giraffes, beanie babies, bears, Disney characters – to fill three more bags. Again, she was incredibly grateful and promised us she would share these items with other people she knows who also work with (or are parents of) special needs children.

After she left, I was SO filled with new joy, mingling with the residuals from the interaction with the first wonderful lady who got the ornaments, I couldn’t stop smiling.

Today’s customers were happily surprised when I refused the money and said the items they stopped to pick up were a gift. I got the distinct sense this couple might be struggling, and the few bucks I was taking from them probably meant way more to them than it would to me. I may have been wrong about them, but better that than take money from people who can’t afford it. They both thanked me profusely, and gave me a hug. I suspect that small act of kindness was a huge win for ten.

Man, who knew getting rid of a few things we no longer needed would turn out to be incredibly cathartic and reinvigorating for me!

I was reminded that no act of kindness is too small. I also realized that maybe the most rebellious thing I can do to fight against this fury-driven fascist government of hate, is to continue to be kind; continue to help others in need; continue to be caring, compassionate, and sympathetic; continue to do what good I can, whenever I can, to whomever I can.

And I learned that, indeed, there really is still some goodness in this world.

Word of advice:

When given the chance to be someone’s “Christmas Angel,” please take it! Because the wonderful, warm fuzzies reward you will feel from helping someone else and making their day a little brighter, is the fuel you’ll need to face the monsters in this world, because your reminded of who and what you’re fighting for.

Be kind, folks, for goodness sake!

Who will you choose to be?

Found posted on Tumblr:

Most people who know the name Sophie Scholl know she was a 21 year old German student activist who was executed by the Nazis for distributing anti-Nazi pamphlets on her college campus. But people don’t talk about what happened leading up to her execution, or what happened after.

Sophie and her brother Hans were caught by a university janitor named Jakob Schmid as they distributed pamphlets in a courtyard. He grabbed them, declared them “under arrest,” and turned them over to the Gestapo. Four days of interrogations later, they were in front of Nazi judge Roland Freisler (one of Hitler’s favorites, his “hanging judge” flown in from Berlin) for a show trial that Hans and Sophie’s parents weren’t allowed in the courtroom for.

Hans, Sophie, and their friend Christoph Probst were all found guilty of treason, sentenced to death, and beheaded a few hours later.

No one talks about this janitor, Jakob Schmid. He got a cash reward and a promotion for turning in Sophie and Hans. The University of Munich threw him a celebration. Hundreds of students attended and cheered for him. He thanked them with a Nazi salute.

After the war, Jakob Schmid was arrested and put on a trial of his own. He said he only turned the Scholls in because distributing pamphlets was against university policy – it wasn’t because of the content of the pamphlets.

When you think of Nazis, you probably think of uniformed officers. But the Nazis were a political party of everyday people. So also think of a janitor “tsk-tsking” that someone wasn’t protesting “the right way.” A student at a rally applauding him. A judge towing the party line.

We like to tell ourselves Nazi Germany was so horrific it could never be repeated. Maybe you don’t personally know someone who would have flipped the switch on the gas chambers. But I can almost guarantee you know a Jakob Schmid.

Libby Jones (via Twitter)

To which, this response was posted by sentientcitizen:

Here’s the opposite story, though. With apologies because I don’t have the book in front of me, so I may get some details wrong, but I read this “Irena’s Children” by Tilar J. Mazzeo.

Irena lived in Warsaw during the Nazi occupation, and dedicated her life to rescuing Jewish children from the Ghetto, and her story is complicated in a lot of ways but – well, this story isn’t actually about Irena, per se.

It’s about a bus driver.

It’s about a day when she’s traveling across town by bus with a very young Jewish child, and partway to their destination the child looks up and asks a question – in Yiddish – and the whole bus goes quiet, because everyone knows what that means. And Irena thinks, okay, we’re going to die here today.

And she’s running through her options – all of them bad – and suddenly the bus stops, and the bus driver announces that there’s been a mechanical failure and the bus needs to return to the depot immediately. Everyone off, please.

And she stands and goes to get off the bus and the driver says – “not you two. Sit down.” So she sits down as everyone else leaves, because, well, what else is she going to do? the options are all still bad, at this point. And when the bus is empty, the bus driver says, “Where do you need to go?”

And then he drives them as close to their destination as he can, and lets them off, and drives away. And Irena lives, and the kid lives, and they never cross paths again.
So a janitor got three people killed, and a bus driver saved two lives – not to mention all the other lives indirectly saved because Irena was able to continue her work.

I think about that almost every day now, to be honest.

We can’t all be Irena. I couldn’t be Irena. She was in a unique place with very specific skills and connections that let her do what she did. I am just one mentally ill librarian. I can’t be her.

But – I can be the bus driver. Or I could be the janitor. Because it doesn’t matter what your job is. It doesn’t matter who you are. In a world like this, every single one of us has the opportunity to do massive harm or massive good. We can save lives or end them.

And that’s scary. but it’s also very comforting? at least for me. Because at the end of the day it means this:

No matter of how small and helpless and unimportant you feel, you’re never powerless in the face of great evil. You can choose to be the bus driver.

Very profound.