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2.11

My nephew*, Dylan, landed back in ICU last week after experiencing another seizure. It’s been quite the rollercoaster for Ann & Brian & their boys.

Dyl is out of ICU, but still in the hospital. His recovery from last week’s episode is much rougher than the first — experiencing confusion & difficulty with speech. He’s getting speech therapy, OT, PT (having suffered some fractures in his back). Every specialist at UW Hospital in Madison is aware of his case, and Mayo Clinic is doing some testing. “There is nothing typical about it.”

Edited to add: The previous diagnosis of meningitis was based on the positive result of a “quick test,” the more in-depth test came back negative. So, it’s a bag full of symptoms, none of which conclusively point to any one thing. Not yet, anyway… keeping all the good vibes going in Dylan’s direction!

It’s going to be a long road to recovery. If you’re able & so inclined, a donation to the GoFundMe Fundraiser for Dylan would be most appreciated. There are so many expenses beyond those that insurance doesn’t cover in a case like this… such as care & feeding of his pup (pictured w/Dylan on the GoFundMe page), not to mention rent, utilities & car insurance. Those things don’t just stop when normal life is unexpectedly “on hold.”

*Technically, Dylan is my step-nephew (Ann’s stepson), but I’ve known him since he was five, so… FAMILY.

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We did indeed have snow on Saturday!

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It snowed all day, totaling about 6″ in the end.

I took an opportunity, early in the day, to take the girls for haircuts — similar to my date with the boys a while back.

Ginny just had a good trim, Malina got more of a chop (and she had had enough with growing out her bangs!).

We went to Culver’s (of course) for lunch, then a quick stop at the grocery store before we hunkered down for the rest of the day.

Right Now...

2.7: Right Now…

…life’s a shit show (pardon my french) in almost every possible way! I’ve often used blogging as a means of improving my mood — it just does, for some reason! I suppose that reason is that I try to be a little upbeat & positive. Anyway, it’s been ages since I’ve done a “Right Now” post, so here we go!

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From a nice walk around the Butterfly Pond at High Cliff State Park a few days ago.

Cooking… I made a pot of Chili All Day earlier this week. Rump roast was on sale at the store, so I bought one & cut it up to make my own stew meat, which I’ve never done (or thought to do) before. It worked out great! I have a tendency to rush the browning (overloading the pan), which is an important part in building flavor, but I cut up half the roast & got it on the heat while I cut the other half — when the first batch was done, the second was ready to go. Anyway, I was told that I should cut up a rump roast for Chili All Day every time from now on.

Excited about… taking the kids to Chicago! As a joint Christmas present, Kate & I are taking all four kids to The Windy City next weekend. We all have Friday off, so we’re leaving Friday morning and returning on Sunday afternoon. On our schedule are visits to the Willis Tower Skydeck, the Shedd Aquarium, and the Field Museum. We’ll visit Millennium Park & The Bean/Cloud Gate, of course, and also hope to squeeze in a stop at the LEGO Store! The hotel is close to the museums, has a pool, and serves breakfast. The Rainforest Cafe @ Gurnee Mills is on the way home, so we’ll cap off our trip with a lunch stop there on Sunday.

We’re so excited to take the kids to The Big City for the first time!

(That’s one of my long weekends, so I’ll have Monday & Tuesday to recover!)

Knitting… is pathetic. It’s been fits & starts, though I have begun seaming (again) the Family Temperature Blanket. Amy Christoffers’ new Pressed Flowers Mittens BERJAYA caught my eye this morning, and I’ve also been dithering about Andrea Mowry’s new Thru Lines BERJAYA scarf.

Looking forward to… I scrolled ahead on my calendar the other day & spotted a note on a date in March: Apply for Social Security This Month. Am I looking forward to that? Will there be anything to look forward to? I dunno, but I have big plans for that $, so I hope so.

Loving… the increasing daylight hours!

Needing… always… to clean & organize my office/workroom/studio, and I have recently made some small strides.

Reading: Pages… I was reading This Long Thread, by Jen Hewett, prior to going on vacation, but wanted something else for Charleston, so I grabbed What I Ate in One Year, by Stanley Tucci; both books were part of last year’s Jólabókaflóð gift. I had the book on the bedside table at our condo, but didn’t actually crack it until we were in the hotel on Tuesday because of the weather/flight issues. Now I’m just going to finish it, and then pick up the Thread again.

Watching… We’ve been watching The White Princess, and I find that I’m constantly checking Wikipedia to explore royal relationships. Speaking of relationships, we’ve also been very into the new season of Finding Your Roots!

Wondering… if we’ll really get 4-7 inches of snow tomorrow.

What are you doing Right Now??

2025-Charleston, SC (40th Anniversary)

1.30: While I Breathe, I Hope.

That’s the slogan on South Carolina license plates, also the state motto.

Isn’t it amazing?

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Thank you all so much for response to the knitsignal! My most recent update was last evening and there are some glimmers of… hope.

UPDATE: I just had a message that his breathing tube was removed & he said his name!!!

ETA another UPDATE: My source just spoke with him & he identified everyone in the room. He’s joking & laughing… when asked if he wanted to see his brother, he said NO… then laughed. Typical behavior!! He also high-fived the doctor.

To say there’s a feeling of relief is to put it mildly. Keep those good things coming!!

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It’s been a coupla weeks, y’all!

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Thank you, too, for your good wishes on our anniversary! It was a little chilly but sunny that day on Kiawah Island, and we had a nice 3-mile out-and-back walk on the beach.

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The sand was very packed… nice to walk on.

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I collected a few shells, ID’d some birds (thanks Merlin!), and saw some interesting things…

The sand was hard, but not boring.

I’ve teased Rusty mercilessly over the years regarding… well, predictability, I guess, especially in terms of diet. He has doctored-up eggs & oatmeal for breakfast every morning; tuna salad for lunch 99 days out of every 100; and would happily eat/rotate four or five favorite dishes for supper, too. I.can.not.

He was living/building/working on a little house at Cape Kiwanda on the Oregon Coast when we were dating (eventually, we finished/enlarged the house together & got married there), and he’d invite me over for supper, which, invariably, was ling cod, brown rice & broccoli. Okay, occasionally the ling cod was replaced with a hamburger or a pork chop… but OMG, ling cod. I’d never heard of it before in my life, and now I was (seemingly) having it all.the.time! Obviously, it was readily available at Lew’s Market in Pacific City or from the fish shop a few doors down from the house.

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A couple of weeks before our getaway, I discovered Wildfish Cannery (probably via a social media link). I was only mildly interested until I saw WILD LINGCOD among the offerings… and I just had to get some! So, for our anniversary lunch, after our walk on the beach, we had tinned ling cod w/mayo on crackers (in lieu of brown rice) (but not far removed from tuna salad) & broccoli salad from a grocery store deli!

I didn’t really care much for ling cod when we were dating, and nothing has changed in 40 years. That tin will be the last ling cod that I’ll ever buy.

But, OMG, the other fish from Wildfish Cannery?? Let me tell ya, both my dad & my father-in-law smoked & canned fish — my dad as a sportsman’s hobby, my FIL as an entrepreneur — and this is right up there with that. So far, I’ve had the Smoked King & Smoked Coho… absolutely delicious! We/I* have yet to try Smoke Coho in Birch Syrup, and Smoked Herring.

*So far, other than what I’ve shared with Rusty, I haven’t been sharing.

2025-Charleston, SC (40th Anniversary)

1.22: Extended “vacation”

I’m sitting in our hotel room at the Hilton Garden Inn. Our original flight was canceled yesterday, which I learned shortly after we stepped into the Gibbes Museum of Art in Charleston, so I really didn’t enjoy that visit as much as I could have. Then came a flurry of rebookings & cancellations… I sort of lost track. There was a lot going on, but I landed one that was to depart this morning & only had one layover at EWR. I could handle that. I extended the rental car and secured our room (which I slightly upgraded, thank god).

Until I stupidly checked my phone in the middle of the night to see what time it was and saw that THAT flight had also been canceled.

Guess what? The Charleston airport is closed. There are NO flights for us tomorrow, so Friday is the best there is. I’ve extended our hotel stay & the rental car (again).

I’ve checked other airlines, Amtrak, and we even considered driving home! Not last night, or even this morning, but now that things are clearing up a bit… but holy cow, it would cost an additional $800+ to return the car to a different airport (even to ORD, which shocked me). The train doesn’t get us there any sooner, and other airlines had little to offer.

Thankfully, things at work are covered, for the most part. And everything is fine at home, despite a polar vortex.

I was fully aware that this was not going to be a tropical getaway, but never in a million years did I think we’d get stuck — and stuck so hard — because of ice & snow in Charleston. I saw on the news (while we enjoyed our complimentary breakfast buffet) that parts of Florida got it even worse!

Anyway, back to the Gibbes…

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There’s a permanent exhibit called “Miniature Portraits,” and I saw a face that was familiar — that crooked little mouth & dimpled chin are unforgettable.

This is Mary (Middleton) Shoolbred, who, along with her husband, is buried in the Shoolbred Family Cemetery that I linked to the other day. The plot was very close to our Airbnb and we stopped on Saturday, on our way to the Beaufort Oyster Festival. Mary & I share a birthday — around 160 years apart, and this miniature portrait, watercolor on ivory, was painted by Jean François de la Valée, ca. 1803, only a few years before she died in her early 30s.

We’ve had a great visit — rearranged a few things on Monday after learning the President Biden would be in town — but otherwise according to plan… except for our delayed departure!