And Betty's tree stood tall and straight, ready to flourish, majestic as only an oak can be, and a fitting reminder of our stalwart departed friend.
Betty's two good friends, Elaine LaRonde and Mary Ann Vanden, delivered some touching remarks, far better than I could compose, and I urge you to read them here.
I feel very
honoured to be asked to pay tribute to our mutual friend Betty. Some of you had
the privilege of knowing Betty far longer than I did. It wasn’t until I joined
the board of KWFN that I really got to know Betty and discovered what an integral part of the club she was. She was
the archivist, the historian, the librarian – it seemed that anything you
wanted to know about the club’s history you could find out from Betty. Much
later I discovered what an important force she had been throughout her 62 years
as a member of the Naturalists.
As Mary Ann
mentioned in Betty’s obituary in The Heron Betty and her husband, Fred,
had been heavily involved in KWFN – almost from the beginning of the club. They
both served on the board, published The Heron, volunteered on special
projects like the Bluebird Project and the Peregrine Falcon Release Project.
Betty’s fingers were in many pies – of the natural sort!
It wasn’t
just Betty’s dedication to the club that brought us all here today. She
demonstrated so many fine qualities in her every day life as well. I’m
convinced that if you look up the meaning of the word “independence” in the
dictionary, you would find Betty’s photo. I certainly became aware of her
independent spirit when I began to drive with her to club meetings. While we were
still meeting at Wing 404 she would inevitably have a heavy box of books or
plants to take to the meeting. I would try to carry the box for her only to have
her insist that it would be too heavy for me and she would refuse to release it
until she reached the car. Considering that she was almost twenty years older
than me, this was always a bit embarrassing!
Betty loved
all aspects of our natural world but her special love was for gardening –
especially native plants. I know she exchanged planted species with other plant
lovers in KWFN and was always generous in sharing with others. I feel
privileged to have some special plants in my yard which started as seedlings in
Betty’s garden. Betty didn’t just share her plants with others, she also shared
her wisdom and kindness too. When my husband died a few years ago, she walked
with me and helped me see that life continues even after losing your life’s
partner – a lesson that she had learned many years earlier when her beloved
Fred had died.
Even in her
nineties, Betty had a zest for life. She loved her home and her garden, her
feline friend, “Puss”, her church life and her friends, her neighbours who
really valued her and her friends from KWFN/WRN, which was such an important
part of her life. When her family moved to BC and asked her to join them, Betty
said, “No thanks” – her life was here. We were her family too! Even during
COVID, and as her health deteriorated, she was always interested in knowing how
other people were doing. She would have been thrilled to see her naturalist
friends here today. And how appropriate to have this oak tree planted in her
memory.




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