dan savage is god.

millato — Thu, 01 Dec 2005 06:28:33 GMT

Ok, hopefully anyone on this group can help me. My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months, great sex life, love eachother, the whole amazing nine yards. But i noticed the other day that he was on the hot or not website looking at girls in the chicago area, he just said that he was bored and was just looking. And he watches a lot of porn, and it really hurts my feelings. He said that he would give it up, and he loves me and wants to be with only me, but i need to know if i am over reacting or am i just being cautious, i have never had a man cheat on me, and i don't ever want it to happen, i don't think he would but i need to know, did anyone else ever have this problem? Guys are gals, help me with any advice, please. Thanks please reply anyone.

gothicmissie — Wed, 13 Apr 2005 17:21:29 GMT

Hey everyone,

I need some help for a school project that I am doing for Free the Children (Marc Kilberger)

if you have a child (any age) (male or female) and or are female and between the ages 24-55.

The link is at:

Survey

This is greatly appreciated.

My target is 25 respondants. If you know anyone who is interested or meets the above(even your parents) please forward this along to them.

Thank sooo much

Melissa

supermarcello — Thu, 22 Jul 2004 16:07:12 GMT

This is actually a weird post, but I actually saw Dan Savage a few weeks ago walking into a local Seattle theatre to see Harry Potter. I assume it was with his son, so I didn't bother to meet him. I swear to Savage Love that it was Dan.

Later I told this story to one of the art editors of The Stranger, who found it to be absolutely hilarious (Dan's the editor-in-chief of the paper, I believe).

Harry. Potter.

Dan Savage = God :)

viperdude — Wed, 14 Jul 2004 19:02:08 GMT

Ok I just found this community so I just had to join :)

I started reading Savage Love a few months ago and now I read it religiously (well almost LOL).

Ok thats all. Peace.

plastickali — Tue, 15 Jun 2004 14:11:36 GMT

I volunteer at the Women's Rights Information Center in Englewood and I recently came across some information you might find interesting.
Joyce Leslie, a clothing store geared toward teenagers, recently started selling shirts saying "You Can Beat Me, You Can Abuse Me, But Don't Touch My Hair Or I'll Kill you."
These shirts both condone violence and promote the image of a self-absorbed teenage. To get this shirts off the market call Joyce Leslie, ask for Rita or the customer service department (the number is: 1-800-526-6216, 1-201-804-7800) and voice your complaint.
Or mail them at: Joyce Leslie, Attention: President; 135 E. Commercial: Moonachie NJ. 07074.
Please don't let our peers condone violence. Pass this message on.
---Nicolette D.

gothicmissie — Mon, 24 May 2004 20:34:40 GMT

Does everyone remember the names of everyone they've ever had sex with?

There's three guys out of eleven, that I can't remember. It was all one night stands so that is probably why.

Not a whore just know something is up when you loose count and names.

Will be fucking Seb tomorrow. Err boy toy.

Wurtzel once said "best way to get over one person is to get another one body on you".

misfitsfeindm25 — Sun, 23 May 2004 18:25:41 GMT

my friend and i have a new profile site we're trying to get started. it's mainly for folks of the glbt (gay, lesbian, bi, trans) community and people friendly with it. add your profile so we can get this started! :] you dont NEED to be gay, come on guuuys!

http://www.geelbeetee.com

;D

jaimene — Mon, 17 May 2004 20:07:00 GMT

This may be old news to some of you but tonight I received two separate emails from friends about this. Just thought I would pass the info along. What do we have to lose?

"GAS STRIKE - MAY 19th
With the price of regular gas climbing over $2.00
This could be an interesting concept. Easy enough to plan to fill-er-up
on
5/17 or 5/18...but don't' buy...

NO GAS ON MAY 19TH

IT HAS BEEN CALCULATED THAT IF EVERYONE IN THE UNITED STATES DID NOT
PURCHASE A DROP OF GASOLINE FOR ONE DAY AND ALL AT THE SAME TIME, THE OIL
COMPANIES WOULD CHOKE ON THEIR STOCKPILES.

AT THE SAME TIME IT WOULD HIT THE ENTIRE INDUSTRY WITH A NET LOSS OF OVER
4.6 BILLION DOLLARS WHICH AFFECTS THE BOTTOM LINES OF THE OIL COMPANIES.

THEREFORE MAY 19TH HAS BEEN FORMALLY DECLARED "STICK IT TO THEM" DAY AND
THE PEOPLE OF THIS NATION SHOULD NOT BUY A SINGLE DROP OF GASOLINE THAT
DAY.

THE ONLY WAY THIS CAN BE DONE IS IF YOU FORWARD THIS E-MAIL TO AS MANY
PEOPLE AS YOU CAN AND AS QUICKLY AS YOU CAN TO GET THE WORD OUT.

REMEMBER ONE THING, NOT ONLY IS THE PRICE OF GASOLINE GOING UP BUT AT THE
SAME TIME AIRLINES ARE FORCED TO RAISE THEIR PRICES, TRUCKING COMPANIES
ARE
FORCED TO RAISE THEIR PRICES WHICH EFFECTS PRICES ON EVERYTHING THAT IS
SHIPPED. THINGS LIKE FOOD, CLOTHING, BUILDING MATERIALS, MEDICAL
SUPPLIES -
ETC. WHO PAYS IN THE END? WE DO!

MARK YOUR CALENDARS AND MAKE MAY 19TH A DAY THAT THE CITIZENS OF THE
UNITED STATES SAY "ENOUGH IS ENOUGH"

jaimene — Wed, 21 Apr 2004 00:37:49 GMT

Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections

jaimene — Thu, 15 Apr 2004 02:44:28 GMT

YEA>..............................drum roll please.................................................i am waiting for the new article and i am excited, i can't wait!!!

jaredrudolph — Tue, 06 Apr 2004 20:40:54 GMT

1. where can i consitently get savage love online?
2. what does dan look like?

mycalliope — Wed, 13 Aug 2003 01:46:21 GMT

ok. i just moved from chicago to colorado. in chicago, i had a weekly ritual of picking up the reader (free newspaper) on my way home from class on thursday nights and turning directly to savage love. i miss it! what's a good webpage to read it on? or, alternately, do they have any email list?

thanks for your help!

gothicmissie — Wed, 02 Apr 2003 21:14:11 GMT

clothing added. my photos wouldn't work, but email me or message me here with your email and I will send photos via that way.

i can lower prices too. i need to get rid of everything on there.

thanks!

my gothic auctions

foressays — Thu, 06 Mar 2003 21:07:11 GMT

I have started a community called straightsvsgays. Everyone here is encouraged to join.

hey hey

eeek — Tue, 25 Feb 2003 18:37:11 GMT

i figured its time for some dan savage news.

as most of us are aware, dan is in a big of a controversy with Katie. explained at the bottom of his column here

her site is now unfortunately dismantled, so i never got a chance to read her side of the story.

she won. sort of. the council decided she is owed five bucks, but no wand. but because she is "spunky" and a multitude of other things, they are sending her a magic wand.

now i'm curious what you guys think. did she deserve the wand? from what i know, he actually said "i will get u a wand if you come to my signing" (i may be wrong about this), i personally think he was a little harsh, i mean the poor girl *did* come to his signing from god knows where, and he had nothing for her (not even her 5 bucks as promised)

and for anyone who needs more of a fill in on the story, feel free to ask.

gothicmissie — Sun, 23 Feb 2003 11:32:16 GMT

i need sex.
right now i need good sex.
no great sex.
fanstatic sex.
sex that lasts for hours.
sex that makes me sore for days.

sex where i get what i want.

okay... so its been only three weeks without sex... but still.....

i think i shall dress more slutry wear those tight jeans of mine.
*winkwink* they always seem to work well...

i havent had good sex in a really long time.

ps. who has my savage book anyways??

flying missiles

dem — Sat, 19 Oct 2002 15:10:11 GMT

The only time in your life when you're allowed to throw a used condom out the window, CR, is when you're in college. And don't you worry about hitting a passerby: anyone walking under the windows of a dorm knows they're running the risk of being hit on the head with a used condom.

note to self: avoid walking underneath college dorm windows

Furries

beandelphiki — Thu, 29 Aug 2002 01:33:18 GMT

This is a bit late, but...

Re: Dan's column where furries wrote in to defend themselves...gee, Dan's not too good at admitting he's made a mistake, is he? ^_^

I just wanted to say that I know some furries, and they are very cool people (and not sick!) Just felt like I should defend them, that's all.

Edit: Oooh, spoke too soon, they're still at it! I should also add that furries have been given a bad rep for several years now, which I guess is why so many are quite touchy about having a columnist as popular as Dan not taking them as seriously as they'd like.

sex ex's & affairs

gothicmissie — Tue, 06 Aug 2002 20:59:31 GMT

no one has written in like forever,

so....

Size DOES matter.

it really does. like when it is so small that you can't even feel it let alone he not even done . . . .

but then again, does a one night stand apply to someone you've known for over 2 years? did date but never had sex together?

well lets just say there will not be an encore.

according to ms. elizabeth wurtzel, best way to get over someone is to get someone new on you.

beandelphiki — Sat, 03 Aug 2002 00:54:59 GMT

Okay, sorry, this is yet another quite pointles update on the tighty whities contest...but has anyone noticed tha Homer Simpson is currently winning?

gothicmissie — Sun, 28 Jul 2002 13:04:47 GMT

cds,clothes for sale.

go to
missie's auctions

or here is a list:

Bjork/Vespertine Tour Shirt/L
Lip Service/Purple Skull Shirt./S
Black Spiderweb Gloves
black big hole fishnets
Red and Black Bell Sleeve top/M
Purple H&M XS sweater
Pentagram Necklace
Stabbing Westward/Darkest Days
Stabbing Westward/Wither Blister Burn + Peel
Madonna/Bed Time Stories
Bryan Adams/The Best of Me
Journey's Compliation

The Pretenders/ Viva El Amor
Lifehouse/No Name Face
Smashing Pumpkins/Adore

Nine Inch Nails/The Downward Spiral/tape
Love & Rockets
Love and Rockets/Sweet F.A.
The Chemical Brothers/Dig Your Own Hole
Inxs/Greatest Hits
The Verve/Urban Hymns
Eurythmics/Greatest Hits
Pulp/This is Hardcore
Eurythmics/Peace
Bauhaus/1979-1983 vl one
Metallica/Load
Tin Star/ The Thrill Kisser
Duran Duran/medazzaland
Metallica/Reload
Man on the Moon Soundtrack
Love & Rockets/Seventh Dream of Teenage Heaven
Crazy Town/ The Gift of Game

Placebo Postcard
Andy Warhol/Diamond Dust Shoes Postcard
Anne Rice/Postcard
Andy Warhol/Postcard
Jim Morrison/Postcard
David Bowie Postcard
The Family Values Tour 1999/CD
Cruel Intentions/Soundtrack/CD
The Tea Party/ Interzone Mantras/CD
The Smashing Pumpkins/Siamese Dream/CD
The Sisters of Mercy/A Slight Case of Overbombing/CD
Lou Reed/Walk on the Wild Side/CD
Marilyn Manson/Mechanical animals/
Marilyn Manson/Antichrist Superstar/CD
Catherine Wheel/Wishville/CD
Bauhaus/swing the heartache bbc sessions
Shadow of the Vampire VHS
Dark Realms/Issue 6 magazine

i need more for school asap.
i got no osap, nothing nada thing. so i am very desperate.
if you live in the gta i can meet up with you and you dont pay shipping.
prices are reasonable, if you want a lot i can give it for cheaper.

thanks for looking.

beandelphiki — Sun, 28 Jul 2002 08:57:20 GMT

Hey, guys, I made it into the tighty whities contest. Anyone else make it in? I can't decide whether to vote for the cartoon guy or the cat.

Anyways, try it now.

dem — Sat, 27 Jul 2002 11:34:43 GMT

anybody else having no luck accessing http://www.tightywhitiesarehot.com/ ??

i haven't been able to see it since the first day it was online and i still haven't gone thru all the pics or voted yet :(

where do you get your savage love?

dem — Thu, 25 Jul 2002 18:02:43 GMT

just curious where everyone reads Savage Love.

I see it in Now Magazine (Toronto). Direct link: http://www.nowtoronto.com/savage/index.php

And this Friday.... the polls are opening: "FINALLY! Barring any last-minute technological glitches, Savage Love readers will be able to vote in the "My Man Sure Looks Hot in His Tighty-Whities Contest" when the cyber polling place opens this Friday, July 26, at nine AM Eastern Standard Time." http://www.tightywhitiesarehot.com/

okie, that was my attempt at a post :)

beandelphiki — Thu, 25 Jul 2002 17:27:13 GMT

I know no one has posted anything in a while, so I thought I'd throw this question out here to see if anyone's still alive...

Is there anyone out there who can say they learned the majority of what they know about sex somewhere OTHER than Savage Love?

-Dan