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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
kingdom-dance
BERJAYA
wetorturedsomefolks

love island should introduce a "scheming eunuch" islander who is like a smart and completely asexual islander exempt from being kicked off or being made to participate in any challenges and they're just there to provide advice and be a sort of sounding board for the other islanders when they need a disinterested party to talk things through with. but the scheming eunuch has secret goals unbeknownst to anyone e.g. a cash prize for talking a certain couple into breaking up etc.

omg I want this job I'd have sooo much fun doing this!
bi-stander
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concerningwolves

i am so so gently asking abled storytellers to try this little exercise: consider that maybe the main character doesn't miraculously get through traumatic event number 8277 with minor injuries. maybe they don't make a full, narratively-convenient recovery. there are tangible, long-term effects on their health. they are disabled. there are lots of ways to be disabled, and you can pick whatever makes the most sense. the point is that because they're the main character, they have to stay at the heart of the narrative. what happens to your story after that? just for the sake of this exercise, you're not allowed to have them spiral into helpless depression, or collapse under self-loathing, or turn their story into a quest for a cure or an uplifting recovery narrative. think it through instead. how can you tell this story with the character's disability? what needs to change? are there any reasons why these changes can't happen?

at the end of it, you might change nothing. but I think this is worth doing, because sometimes you'll find that the reason you didn't want your character to have a limp, or lose a limb or sense, or have some kind of SFF-appropriate fantasy disability is because of internalised biases. those are worth challenging & i truly believe that creators miss out on richer stories when they view disability either as a fate worse than death or as nothing more than a catalyst for tragedy.

on writing disability
rhythmic-idealist
BERJAYA
shamebats

A german trans guy I follow on tiktok recently shared that he has a habit of telling people a random women's name when they ask about his deadname and one time he used a fake name when referring to his pre-transition self in a skit and to this day he still gets trolls in his comments calling him by that name thinking they're hitting a nerve, meanwhile it's just some random ass name he came up with on the spot. If anyone needs a fun strategy for messing with transphobes.

smart thing I did recently: freeze a bunch of pesto in one tablespoon/15 mL portions so I have the perfect amount for a single serving of pasta ready at any time

not smart thing I did recently: forget to buy more pasta

of course now that it finally cooled off enough for me to do a little cooking I want pesto pasta and can't have it because I'm out of pasta husband said I should use ramen or soba and I was aghast and scandalized and told him they are noodles not pasta to which he said they are the same thing!!! I was even more aghast and scandalized at this! so he asked his Italian coworker today if ramen is pasta and his coworker was offended in Italian at the thought he did at least promise to buy me pasta tomorrow since I can't go out and get any myself right now (for the record my husband is normally a smart guy but *not* when it comes to food and 80% of what he knows about food is because of me though he's really good at picking out perfect avocados even though he doesn't eat them) food kris rambles in the tags at least it's my own post this time lol
eatmystardustloser
BERJAYA
johannestevans

Watched a documentary about abuse and advice one guy said to give children was, "Tell them that if someone is hurting them, to tell someone - and don't just tell one person. Tell as many people as possible, and keep telling as many people as possible until the abuse stops." and i really liked that

Bc so many ppl focus on the idea of telling A Trusted Adult, but even a well-meaning individual can fuck up and let abuse fall through the cracks or not know what to do

Whereas if a child tells LOADS of adults AND other kids, there's far less opportunity for an abuser to do damage control

Consistently telling their story and spreading it around disempowers the abuser to control and coerce the flow of information, or to utilise gaps and weaknesses in systems of reporting or welfare to isolate the child

Just really good advice. Not suprised I don't hear it more often.

honestly things might have turned out better for my sister and I had we done this child abuse